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Introduction

💖 Beginner's Guide: Welcoming Your "She"! What Should We Pay Attention To During Your First Encounter?

Finally receiving your first companion doll is a moment filled with excitement, curiosity, and perhaps a touch of nervousness—and that is completely normal!

As a beginner, you undoubtedly have many questions: How do I safely "unbox" her? When moving and positioning her, how can I avoid damage? What is the proper routine for her daily protection and care?

This guide will provide you with the most practical steps and essential tips, helping you establish the right habits from your very first contact to ensure your new "She" remains safe, intact, and a long-lasting presence by your side.

Your companion doll is far more than just an ordinary purchase. She represents a significant emotional and financial investment, requiring the right care and handling to maintain her beauty and full functionality over time.

Many first-time sex doll owners, due to inexperience, often make avoidable mistakes during their initial contact. These errors can lead to scratches, joint damage, or even tragically shorten the doll's lifespan. These are regrettable outcomes that can be entirely prevented!

Therefore, before you prepare for true intimacy, a complete and reliable beginner's guide is essential. This article will walk you through the entire step-by-step process: from careful unboxing and inspection, to gentle dressing and positioning, and finally, preparing for your first intimate experience.

By following these crucial steps, you will quickly realize that she is not just a product you bought—she is a partner ready to provide you with a lifelike, deeply personal, and highly customized companionship.

📦 Step 1: Unboxing and Thorough Inspection

Opening the box and meeting your new companion is arguably the most exhilarating moment of the entire process, but patience is key! Handling a heavy yet fragile object requires more preparation and caution than you might expect.

1. Preparation: Safety First

Before you start, make sure you and your doll are in a safe environment by completing these preparations:

  • Clear, Soft Surface: Clear a sufficiently large area in your bedroom or living room. The floor should be covered with a soft rug, yoga mat, or thick towels. This is crucial to prevent damage if the doll is accidentally dropped during removal.

  • Temperature Matters: Ensure the room temperature is comfortable (not too cold). Low temperatures can cause the TPE or silicone material to stiffen, increasing the risk of accidental tearing when you handle her.

  • Prepare Your Tools: Have a pair of blunt-tipped scissors or a utility knife ready, but be extremely careful! Never use sharp tools directly against the packaging where the doll's body lies, as this risks scratching her skin.

2. The Gentle Unboxing Process

Your doll is typically protected by thick foam or customized cardboard. Follow these steps for safe extraction:

  • Side or Bottom Opening: Start by carefully cutting the seals from the side or bottom of the box, avoiding making deep cuts from the top.

  • Slow Extraction: The doll in the box is heavy. Do not attempt to pull her out by her limbs while they are still wrapped in plastic film. The safest method is:

    1. Lay the packaging box on its side.

    2. Gently slide the box until the doll moves toward the opening.

    3. Grab the core torso area (such as the waist or hips) and smoothly slide her out of the box.

  • Removing Protective Layers: Most dolls are wrapped in plastic sheeting, foam netting, or a custom bag. Use your blunt scissors to carefully cut away this packaging, ensuring the blade is always pointed away from the doll's exterior skin.

3. The Initial Examination: A Detailed Check

Once the doll is fully unwrapped, immediately conduct a thorough "physical examination." This step is vital for confirming the factory quality or detecting any shipping damage. It is the best time to document issues should you need to contact the manufacturer or seller.

Focus on these key areas during your inspection:

  • Skin Surface: Carefully examine the entire body, paying special attention to detailed areas like joints, the neck, hands, and feet. Check for any scratches, cracks, small air bubbles, oil stains, or discoloration.

  • Skeletal Joints: Gently flex her limbs and articulate her wrists, ankles, and knees. Check the internal skeleton for smooth, non-sticky movement, or any abnormal noises.

  • Features and Hair: Check the eyes, fingernails, and the security of all implanted hair (head hair and pubic hair). Ensure no details are loose or damaged.

  • Internal Channels: Inspect all channels (vaginal, anal, or oral) for any tears, breakage, or foreign residue.

📝 Important Note: Many new dolls arrive with release powder or a trace amount of isolation oil residue on the skin. This is normal and not a quality issue. Do not attempt to wipe it off with a wet cloth yet; we will cover the proper cleaning process later.

If you find any serious flaws, take photos immediately and contact your supplier. If everything is perfect, congratulations—you are ready for the next stage!


👗 Step 2: Dressing and Setup (Preventing Staining and Damage)

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Once you've confirmed your doll is in perfect condition, the next step is the gentle process of dressing her and determining her "place." The key at this stage is protecting her skin from chemical damage and preventing stress on her joints.

1. Initial Cleaning and Oiling Removal (Optional but Recommended)

Before any clothing touches her skin, an initial cleaning to remove residue is advisable.

  • Residue Treatment: The "isolation oil" or "release powder" often present on a new doll's skin must be removed. If left on, it attracts dust and makes the skin highly susceptible to absorbing clothing dyes.

  • Method: Use a neutral, mild body wash (like baby shampoo) with warm water to gently wash her entire body. Pay extra attention to internal channels and skin folds.

  • Drying and Powdering: After cleaning, use a dry, soft towel (like a microfiber cloth) to gently pat her dry. Once she is completely moisture-free, lightly dust her entire body with baby powder or specialized doll care powder. This restores her dry, soft texture and acts as an effective barrier against dye transfer.

2. Safe Dressing Guide: Preventing the Dreaded Dye Transfer

The TPE or silicone skin of your doll is highly porous, meaning it can easily absorb colors. Dye transfer is one of the most common beginner mistakes and is almost irreversible.

❌ Dye Risk Warning:

  • Dark/Vibrant Clothing: Dark colors like black, red, navy blue, and especially denim—particularly if they are unwashed, low-quality, or brand new fast-fashion items—pose the highest risk of sex doll staining.

  • Tight Garments: Tight clothes, such as stockings or fitted dresses, that maintain prolonged contact with the skin are more likely to cause dye penetration in warm or humid conditions.

✅ Safe Dressing Strategy:

  • Pre-wash Light Colors: The first clothes you put on your doll should be light-colored or white. If you must use dark clothing, it must be thoroughly pre-washed with salt and laundered at least twice to remove excess dye.

  • Use Undergarments as a Barrier: Always dress your doll in a layer of white or light-colored pure cotton underwear or a simple bodysuit to act as a crucial isolation layer between her skin and the outerwear.

  • Patience and Technique: When dressing her, slightly stretch the skin or garment openings away from her limbs or torso and gently slide the clothing on. Never pull or force the fabric, as this risks tearing the clothing or the skin around the joints.

3. Proper Posing and Storage: Fighting Gravity

While your doll's skeleton is flexible, her weight combined with the soft exterior material means that maintaining the same pose for long periods can cause stress damage.

  • Avoid Long-Term Standing: Unless your doll has a professional, robust standing frame, do not allow her to stand for extended durations. This places immense stress on the ankle and knee joints.

  • Lying Down or Sitting for Storage:

    • Lying Down: The best storage position is lying flat on a clean, non-colored surface (like a bed covered with a white sheet).

    • Sitting: If she is sitting, ensure her hips and thighs are evenly supported and her back is stabilized. Avoid letting her teeter on edges or sharp objects.

  • Support the Head: The head is one of the heaviest parts of the doll. If she is lying down for a long period, place a soft pillow or rolled-up towel beneath her neck to provide support and prevent stretching of the neck skin and joints.

By adopting meticulous cleaning and safe dressing habits, you establish a solid foundation for her long-term "health" and appearance.

🔥 Step 3: Preparing for Your First Intimate Experience

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Congratulations! Having successfully navigated the first two stages of careful handling, your companion doll is now ready to establish a truly intimate connection with you. To ensure this first experience is safe, pleasurable, and realistic, the following steps are absolutely essential.

1. Ensuring Hygiene: Pre-Intimacy Cleaning

Before the first use of any channel (vaginal, anal, or oral), a thorough cleaning is mandatory, even if the channels appear clean.

  • Internal Channel Cleaning: Use a mild antibacterial soap or specialized channel cleaner along with a syringe (without a needle) or a small douching kit to inject the cleaning solution into the channel. Gently massage the exterior, and then drain the fluid.

  • Thorough Rinsing: Use warm water (purified or boiled and cooled water is best) to repeatedly flush the channel until the outflowing water is completely clear and foam-free. Ensure no cleaning residue remains.

  • Complete Drying: This is a crucial step. The internal channels must be completely dry before intimacy begins. You can use lint-free cloth strips or specialized drying sticks, or allow the channel to air dry completely. Residual moisture compromises the lubricant's effectiveness and can create an environment for bacterial growth.

2. Lubricant Selection and Application: Enhancing Realism

Lubricant is used not only for a smooth experience but also to protect the doll's internal channel material and prevent friction damage.

  • Water-based Lube ONLY: You must only use water-based lubricants. Never use oil-based lubricants (such as petroleum jelly, mineral oil, or certain massage oils), as oil-based products will severely corrode TPE or silicone material, leading to permanent degradation and breakdown.

  • Generous Application: Do not skimp on the lube. For the first time, apply a generous amount of lubricant both inside the channel and on the exterior to minimize friction and maximize realism and comfort.

3. The "Warm-Up" Phase: Enhancing Realism

TPE or silicone dolls are generally cooler to the touch, which can diminish the realism of the first experience. A proper "warm-up" can significantly enhance the connection.

  • Warming the Channels: The warm water used during the cleaning process will provide initial pre-heating. You can also use a hot water bottle or a heating pad (wrapped in a towel) placed on the doll's torso or hip area for a period.

  • Temperature Caution: Ensure the heat source is warm but not hot to the touch (. Excessive heat can damage the doll's material.

4. Gentle Handling: Protecting Joints and Skeleton

Remember that her skeletal joints are intricate but delicate.

  • Avoid Extreme Poses: During your first experience, avoid over-twisting or reverse-bending her limbs, neck, or waist. Keep all movements within the normal range of human motion, especially the neck and wrists.

  • Core Support: When moving or adjusting her pose, always support her torso core rather than pulling solely on the limbs.

  • Communication and Enjoyment: While she cannot respond, treat her with love and respect. Enjoy this process of establishing an intimate connection.

5. Aftercare: Post-Intimacy Cleaning and Storage

Immediately after the first experience, thorough cleaning is key to ensuring your doll's longevity:

  • Immediate Channel Cleaning: Follow the same procedure as the pre-intimacy steps—immediately wash all used channels thoroughly with an antibacterial cleaning solution to ensure no lubricant or residue is left behind.

  • Drying and Powdering: Once again, make sure all channels are completely dry. Apply a new layer of care powder to her body (especially the intimate areas), and place her back in a flat, safe storage position.

Following this guide ensures your first intimate encounter is enjoyable, memorable, and safe, setting the foundation for a long-lasting partnership.

 

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